Intentionally Falling in Love
I'm not great at everything, but one of my major strengths is re-invention.
One major shift I have made in my own life is how I fall in love and what's happening in my love life.
Although it's not movie-worthy full of the blissful "fuck it all I choose love!" energy, it's more solid and steady these days.
And, solid and steady is pretty sexy to me at this point.
Something I really wanted to shift is how I managed and paid attention to the early phases of falling in love.
I wanted to walk the talk I give to my clients and enter eyes wide open, fully informed, and consenting to each new phase rather than letting something (or someone) take me over.
I wanted to see ALL green, red, and yellow flags and make decisions that are best for the whole of me. No more ignoring big warning signs and “hoping” things will “get better.”
So, if you're looking for your own re-invention, whether its in love, dating, or business, here are a couple of guiding questions:
Do you like how you're being treated or how you feel NOW?
Or, are you falling for the potential of what this person or situation might be? (Look for a bunch of promises to be different in the future, rather than being great now)
Noticing follow through–ask yourself, “can I count on this person to do as they say they're going to do?”
We can all forget to do things every once in awhile, but following through with commitment is how we build trust. Big or small, how is this person with the follow through?
In the last year, I have had at least 3 clients discover their dream relationship or get engaged or married and attribute this to the healing they have done through our work together.
I 100% know they needed to overcome their self-sabotaging behaviors before they could really attract a healthy partner, and maybe that resonates for you too.
Start with eyes open, you are worthy of great love and treatment from others, keep an eye on this blog for more ideas on dating intentionally, and reach out if you want to talk about how to work together.
Xo,
Alysondra
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