Nothing is Wrong with You

You might be getting stuck in relationship patterns that are no longer serving you, or see that you’re not moving forward on something that feels really important to you.

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The life and love you’re seeking is seeking you too.

Consider this…

✓ Do you know something needs to change—in your relationship, your dating life, or simply in how you feel about yourself?

✓‍ ‍Are you stuck in the same patterns with communication, intimacy, trust, sex, or relationships, no matter how hard you try to do things differently?

✓ Have you done therapy or your own self-work before, but feel ready to understand yourself more deeply and create meaningful, lasting change?

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You feel more at home in yourself—and more connected in the relationships that matter most.

Your nervous system? Calmer.

Your relationships? More connected.

Your communication? More honest.

You move through life with more confidence and clarity—better able to ask for what you need, navigate the hard stuff, trust yourself, and create relationships that actually feel good to be in.

The self-doubt that used to take up so much space!?

It’s quieter now. You trust yourself more. You understand your patterns. You’re clearer about what you want—and more confident asking for it.

Relationships feel more connected. Communication feels more honest. Intimacy feels more authentic. And you feel more like yourself.

Life still gets messy. Relationships are still complicated. Hard days still happen.

But you’re better able to navigate them with clarity, self-trust, and a deeper understanding of yourself and the people you love.

That’s the kind of change we’re here for.

That’s where WE come in…

We help individuals and couples to understand the patterns that are keeping them stuck…

because meaningful change isn’t about becoming someone else. It’s about taking what’s already there and creating something more connected, authentic, and fulfilling.

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11

Years in Business

28

Years in Women's Advocacy & Empowerment

10k+

Hours Helping Clients

“The most Healing, insightful, and deep Self-Discovery Journey I could ever imagine. ”

Initially when I started working with Dr. Alysondra – I wanted to get off the rollercoaster that I had been on with romantic relationships for truly my entire life. Little did I know I would embark on the most healing, insightful, deep, and self-discovery journey I could ever imagine. She asked me questions and challenged me even when I resisted it. And because of her incredible talent, support, commitment, and guidance I have been able to create a life that I only dreamt of during my darkest days. I continue to use my toolbox filled with many different strategies we worked on, and ways to now move through difficult situations that still may trigger me. I feel secure, grounded, and oh – ended up with my love of my love who I am currently planning my wedding with.

-An Incredible Woman

HOW IT WORKS

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Connect

Start with a free 15-minute consultation. We’ll talk about what’s bringing you in, answer your questions, and help you find the therapist who feels like the right fit.

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Explore

Your first sessions are about getting to know you—your story, your relationships, what’s working, what isn’t, and what you’d like to feel different.

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Transform

This is where the real work happens. Together, we’ll uncover patterns, deepen understanding, practice new ways of relating, and turn insight into meaningful change that lasts.

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LOVE DEEPER ✦ LIVE FULLY ✦ KNOW YOURSELF ✦ CONNECT ✦ LOVE DEEPER ✦ LIVE FULLY ✦ KNOW YOURSELF ✦ CONNECT AUTHENTICALLY ✦

LOVE DEEPER ✦ LIVE FULLY ✦ KNOW YOURSELF ✦ CONNECT ✦ LOVE DEEPER ✦ LIVE FULLY ✦ KNOW YOURSELF ✦ CONNECT AUTHENTICALLY ✦

We’re Relational

We believe healing happens through connection. Our approach is relational, eclectic, and empowering—helping you understand your patterns, trust yourself more deeply, and create meaningful change.

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We’re Sex-Positive

We offer a shame-free safe space to explore sex, desire, intimacy, and pleasure.

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We’re Affirming

We are LGBTQ+ affirming, queer owned, and all of who you are is welcome here.

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We’re Very Human

We offer relational therapy with real conversations, genuine connection, humor, and a real person (not a blank slate).

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Want to check out couples therapy?

Yes, your relationship can feel even better.

The quality of our relationships shapes the quality of our lives. And when connection, trust, communication, or intimacy starts to feel hard, it can affect everything.

We help couples understand the patterns keeping them stuck, communicate more honestly, deepen intimacy, and navigate everything from everyday disconnection to betrayal and broken trust.

Whether you’re struggling or simply know there’s more possible, we’ll help you create a relationship that feels more connected, authentic, and fulfilling.

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  • “After working with Dr. Alysondra I felt a stronger sense of myself.”

    I gained the ability see what could be and how to be nicer and kinder to myself. I don’t have to be what people expect of me. I have to be me, whatever that is in that moment. I have the power to be and do whatever I desire and use it for the greater good.

    -Dr. Suzie Hodges, Educator & Consultant

  • “Dr. Alysondra creates a culture of empowerment and has developed a safe space to be vulnerable without fear.”

    She joins each of us as a deeply compassionate partner to problem-solve and knock down external and internal barriers. When I have participated in the group coaching, it has shed light on my own challenges and I’m able to find valuable answers by watching Dr. Alysondra coach. I feel like I’m getting multiple coaching sessions in one!

    -Kristin Schultz, Entrepreneur & Director of Plant Amnesty

  • “There's something different about Dr. Alysondra's coaching…”

    In other programs I still found ways to avoid doing the work I needed. With Dr. Alysondra, I'm drawn to doing the work. I can't wait for the workbooks. The ways she prompts self-reflection is irresistible. I think I used to be afraid to look at myself wholly because ignorance is bliss. But with Dr. Alysondra and the other women sharing stories in the group coaching program...it's undeniably clear that doing this work is THE pathway to the life I want.

    -A Very Amazing Woman

  • “This has changed my life.”

    Dr. Alysondra, your voice is in my head now… “what would make this more pleasurable?” and “what would make this even more enjoyable?” I feel like for so long I have put my needs on hold for “task mode” and never thought even task mode can be more pleasurable. It’s really changed and shifted my perspective around the little things within my life and made my life so much better!

    -Sarajane Manion McQuigg, Entreprenur & Proud Mama

  • “The support is unrivaled.”

    I think my gain from time with Dr. Alysondra is in the ASK. Giving myself permission to ask for what I need. Asking myself where I need more pleasure. Asking my partner for more sexy time. I’ve learned that the answers start with the ASK.

    -Amy Long, Life + Intimacy Coach

  • Both. For the most part, it’s easiest to meet on Zoom. However, if you are in the Bellingham, WA area I may be able to meet with you in person (though those spots are limited!).

  • For the most part, I work in packages. I want to be able to help you create AND sustain the change you’re making. However, if you do need a single session please let me know and we can customize.

  • YES! I love teaching and speaking, and would LOVE to talk with you about what you or your group is needing.

  • YES! Please contact me and let me know about you, your podcast name, and the subject you’re hoping to cover! I love media like podcasts and radio so would be thrilled to be a guest.

  • I have had the privilege of earning: PhD in Counseling Psychology, and a Masters and Bachelors in Women’s & Gender Studies, and am also a Board Certified Sexologist.

  • The package prices vary depending on which package you go with. Contact me for the most updated packages and I’ll send that to you ASAP.

  • No way. I’ll want to understand a little about where you come from so I know even more about what may impacting you now, but I mostly focus on helping you to get out of your own way and move forward.

  • Yes, I do and I love that! My approach is non-religious and I like to meet with a couple at least 5-6 times (6 is preferred, some couples prefer to meet for more than this). We cover a wide range of issues like: Finances Sex Life Morals/Values/Beliefs Navigating Conflict Roles in relationship and household Overall lifestyle (including children, pets, home care, etc.)

  • Yes and YES. In fact, many of the couples I work with are same-sex couples. I have many years of experience in this realm, have taught classes on enhancing queer relationships, and also identify as queer! YAY!

  • Yes, I really like to help couples experience greater intimacy, pleasure, and fulfillment with sex. If you’re a longer term couple, it’s easy to feel like that spark has faded but I can help you re-ignite.

  • Yes! I love couples and LOVE so much I became an ordained minister with the United Life Church. I can work with you and your partner to design a ceremony that feels like YOU, and is not based in religious doctrine.

  • Sadly, no, but I do think you can share that couples coaching doesn’t have to be about anyone doing anything “wrong,” and instead is an awesome preventative step that could bring more joy and closeness!

Ready to Make Some Changes? Let’s Go!

Your journey to confidence, empowerment, and deeper connection has already begun just by you being here.

In a free 15min chat, we’ll talk through your goals and hopes for our work together and get a sense of whether or not we would be a good team. I’m excited for you and all you’re about to bring into your life!

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